4 Reasons Most Women Suck At Giving Handjobs

Why Most Women Suck At Giving Handjobs

A new relationship product just came on the market.  It’s called Stroke of Genius by Cassidy Lyon and Michael Fiore.  It teaches women how to give the men in their lives the most incredible handjobs ever, and it got me thinking.

I’ve had some pretty amazing handjobs, but I’ve had a lot of really terrible ones, too.  So I had to ask myself: “Why on earth are so many women AWFUL at giving handjobs?”

I think Cassidy Lyon nailed it on the head when she surveyed a bunch of guys and boiled it down to 4 or 5 things.  For example, the guys she interviewed said things like:

“She just seems bored by the whole thing. She acts like she’d rather be scrubbing trash cans.”

“I don’t know if she had a boyfriend who was into pain before me or what, but she grabs my dick SO HARD and goes all “shake weight” on me. I’m a tough guy, but I do not want my cock treated like that. And when I got some lube out of the drawer and asked her to use it, she just looked at me like I was insulting her. Like she knows my dick better than I do or something, or she read some cock-and-ball torture technique.”

“Two words: No lube.”

“She says her arm gets tired after two minutes and stops. Then I have to get in there and finish myself off, and we both feel like losers.”

And all these interview responses led Cassidy to a few conclusions, which I whole-heartedly agree with.  Here are 4 main reasons many women are terrible at giving handjobs:

1.) They lack enthusiasm and treat a handjob like it’s some kind of horrible burden.

I think the first response above pretty much sums it up, “She acts like she’d rather be scrubbing trash cans.”  I absolutely hate when a woman gives me a handjob with the look on her face of, “Ok, let’s just get this over with.”  It totally ruins what could be an amazing experience for both her AND I.

2.) They only know one way to give a handjob.

Many women simply don’t realize there are many different ways to touch a penis and make it feel really, really good.  So they do every handjob the exact same way – usually clasping their hand around a man’s penis and stroking up and down with whatever pressure and speed they’ve used in the past with all their exes.  Cassidy calls this, “Treating HIS cock like EVERY cock.”

The problem is, every guy is different.  Your ex may have liked his dick completely man-handled and treated like a shake-weight, but to other guys that’s a “cock-and-ball torture technique”.

If you want to get good at giving handjobs, then learn about the different parts of the penis and the many different techniques you can use to stimulate those different areas.  Take some time to learn exactly what your man likes, so you can send him over the edge and make him feel like no other woman ever has.

3.) They only use handjobs to get a man hard.

In other words, there are many women who use handjobs just as a prelude to sex.  They only perform them just long enough to get a guy hard.  Then, they stop.

Maybe you’ve been taught differently, but men like foreplay too, and it’s an amazing feeling when a woman takes time to give a man’s penis extra special attention with her hands.  Knowing how much you enjoy it will make your man want to return the favor ten-fold!

4.) They give up too soon.

Women who give the best handjobs are in it for the long-haul and turn it into its own erotic experience from time to time.  They don’t just focus on 2-minute quickies.

If your man takes a while to reach orgasm, then stroking and stroking and stroking is sure to wear your arm out.  Many women fall into this trap because their one and only move is to stroke faster and faster and faster and hope their man reaches orgasm before their arm gets tired.

That’s why it’s so important to learn a bunch of different handjob techniques.  Not only will you and your man have a more varied sexual experience, but you won’t tire yourself out in the process, and you’ll actually be able to enjoy it as much as he does!

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